Secure your Attachment, Secure your Relationships
SECURE
Securely Attached. Securely Happy.
Breakup with your Anxiety & Create a Healthy Secure Relationship that Lasts, in just 3 months.
- Are you tired of feeling constantly on edge in your relationships? Always feeling like you’re giving more than you’re getting?
- Do you find yourself constantly seeking reassurance, checking your phone for new messages and flipping instantly to “worst-case scenario” in your head?
- Maybe you’ve even caught yourself Facebook stalking your partner to see who they’re friends with or what they’re commenting on so you know exactly what they’re up to
I See You
You know that you’re being overly needy and it’s pushing people away, but somehow that gremlin called “overthinking” just takes over your brain and leaves you spinning in circles of worry and self-doubt and those 15 messages you sent “just to check-in” are making you feel equal parts guilty and abandoned.
That pull is like a drug you know is bad for you, but you just keep going back for more
It’s easy to blame other people for your relationship unhappiness.
- “If only she told me she loved me more often.”
- “If only he didn’t take hours to reply.”
- “They must not care about me as much as I care about them.”
But It's Exhausting, right?
- It stops you from being present and enjoying the good things.
- It stops you from expressing your own needs for worry that you’ll be ignored or rejected.
- It stops you from enjoying alone time.
Heres the Truth: Your Partner is not Responsible for your Happiness...*
* Read that again!
I know. It’s really confronting. Breathe with me here, because this isn’t the end of the story.
Many of us mistakenly believe that our partners are solely responsible for our happiness or unhappiness. It can be easy to fall into the trap of blaming our partners, making excuses for our own thoughts or behaviours and denying that we are part of the problem.
Buuuuut, this usually leads to unhealthy expectations, resentment on both sides, and ultimately, disappointment and failed relationships. And I know you don’t want that.
The truth is, Your Happiness is Your Responsibility.
And the great news is that YOU have control over it.
It’s your Happiness, not Everyone Else’s Happiness, RIGHT?
Imagine a life where your relationships are no longer a constant source of stress, anxiety and feeling needy. A life where you feel secure, confident, and in control of your emotions without having to depend on someone else to gift reassurance to you.
Imagine If:
- You could trust your partner without constantly seeking reassurance.
- You could communicate your needs openly and honestly, without being worried about rejection.
- You could set healthy boundaries and prioritise your own well-being.
- You could let go of the past and focus on building a positive future.
- You could attract a partner who values and respects you.
Imagine the peace, freedom and lifelong happiness that could be yours.
Are you ready to take control of your love life?
Let’s work together to break free from anxious attachment and
create the healthy, fulfilling relationships you deserve.
I’ve created a 12-week deeply personalised coaching and healing program designed to help you break free from your suffocating, exhausting anxious attachment and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
Over the course of 3 months you'll learn:
- The root causes of anxious attachment and how it affects your relationships.
- Effective strategies for managing anxiety and regulating your emotions so you stop overreacting.
- How to set and maintain healthy boundaries to protect yourself.
- Techniques for building self-esteem and self-worth so you stop relying on others for validation.
- How to attract (andor keep!) a secure partner who values your worth.
That is exactly what you get when you join SECURE
Why this matters
Just over 50% (*1) of the general population are securely attached. The other 50% of the population is split into 25% Anxiously attached, 20% Avoidantly attached and 5% Anxiously/Avoidant attached.
This begs the question; if you are single and dating, why is it so hard to find a securely attached partner?
Securely attached people make up a majority of the general population, yet most single people are either anxious or avoidant attached.
This is because secure people maintain healthy relationships over the long term and don’t tend to be in the dating pool. They are the Golden Goose of the dating world!
The Solution? Join SECURE
- Regulate your emotions so you can feel calm & confident
- Gain clarity around the behaviours that are holding you back and how to shift them
- Feel more empowered and in control of your love life
- Have the dating apps work for you, so you can avoid: emotionally unavailable matches, stop waiting for the ‘spark’, start meeting in real life (IRL) and value the slow burn.
*1: Reddit suggests this is 50-70% and Heirloom Counselling states it is 58% along with YouGov survey).
In SECURE I’ll take you through my F.L.Y pathway (a tried and tested methodology)
It works to heal anxious attachment styles by understanding how it formed, how it impacts you and everyone around you and how to release it forever ... by remembering to First Love Yourself.
It’s a three-step system that’s almost the opposite of what you’ve been taught to do by nearly everyone else. It’s unlike anything you’ve ever seen or used before. The best part is F.L.Y. works really fast!
Freedom from Self-Doubt
Overcoming anxious attachment requires a strong sense of self-worth. Our work together will empower you to recognise and embrace your strengths, fostering a positive self-image. By eliminating self-doubt and self-sabotaging thoughts, you can hit the reset button and truly believe “You are amazing and worthy.”
Let Go of the Past
Anxious attachment often stems from childhood experiences. By releasing emotional baggage from the past, you can create a healthier foundation for your present relationships, you can move forward with a clean slate, embracing lessons learned while releasing pain and resentment. This journey of self-discovery will empower you to build stronger, more fulfilling relationships that stand the test of time.
Your Actions Define You
Taking ownership of one’s actions and choices is key to building healthy relationships. The FLY pathway will give you the tools you need to navigate the boundaries of your emotions, owning what is yours, through self-reflection, and encouraging accountability for your role in your relationships. This deep dive empowers you to understand someone’s ‘partial truth’ without falling into the blame game.
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Have a look over the program in detail, by downloading the brochure – click the button below.
Module 1 - Unveil your path to transformation
This module is all about shaking off bad relationship habits. You’ll create a personal plan to put yourself first and improve your connections with others
You will learn:
- Working with Radical Acceptance
- Release past wounding and know your worth
- Build non-negotiable daily routines to develop trust
Module 2 - Embrace the power of change
In this module, you’ll learn how to feel better about yourself and build better connections with others.
You will learn:
- Release unfinished business from your past
- Process repressed, bottled up emotions
- Break the push pull attraction of familiarity
Module 3 - Release past pain for good...
This module helps you move on from past hurts, breaking the chain of emotional baggage in new relationships.
You will learn:
- Deep dive into understanding
your attachment styles - Powerful re frame on assumptions exercises
- How to balance intimacy and separation
– understanding repetition compulsion
Module 4 - Cultivate Trust and Confidence
This module helps you shake off distrust and insecurity, creating real connections built on trust and confidence.
You will learn:
- Forgiveness embodiment and awareness
- Deep inner child connection activity
- Shamanic practice to release and forgive past relationships
Module 5 - Rewrite your beliefs for success
This module helps you change your mindset and create better relationship dynamics.
You will learn:
- Identity, Relationship standards and Ghost partner
- Decontamination shower with love letter to the past
- Doing ‘the work’ to become securely attached.
Module 6 - Love and value yourself unconditionally
In this module, you’ll learn to love yourself and attract relationships that respect your true worth
You will learn
- Relationship Mastery
- Owning your 4 Superpowers like a Ninja.
- Three x A’s meditation to elevate your
self-esteem
FLY Pathway This is for you if: | Silver package | Gold package |
You want access to the online program, are self motivated and on a limited budget. You are comfortable with a self modulated program or we’ve coached previously so you know how to get the most out of the program. | Regular coaching sessions with access to an online program as your support resource. You prefer the accountability of tailored coaching support and need more face to face with tailored coaching specifically for your situation. | |
Unlimited lifetime personal access to the course valued at $5000 | ✅ | ✅ |
Copy of Tzara’s book “3 Big mistakes made after a breakup” Valued at $29.95 | ✅ | ✅ |
Audit of your online dating profile – to give you an unfair advantage. | ❌ | ✅ |
Dating again cheat sheet. Do’s and don’ts, step by step guide to dating genuine people not time wasters. | ✅ | ✅ |
“Cutting the cord” – meditation practice to energetically break free of someone who is difficult to let go off. | ✅ | ✅ |
A self Assessment attachment style workbook tailored for the program | ✅ | ✅ |
Ennegram typology test to understand your distinct personality traits when relating to others. | ❌ | ✅ |
Native perspective test to understand what is operating outside conscious awareness. | ❌ | ✅ |
SOS calls | ❌ | ✅ |
Number of private coaching sessions. | 2 x 1 hours | 6 x 1 hours 2 x 30mins |
Total value | $6,250 | $12,400 |
Your investment | $1,497 + GST | $2,997 + GST |
Gold Package details
- Audit of your online dating profile – including photo review, and bio edit. So you can start attracting rather than chasing that needle in the haystack.
- My ebook: “The 3 Biggest mistakes most women make after a breakup”. All the advice, tips and strategies you need to get your mojo back after a devastating separation.
- Dating again cheat sheet: My steps on how to date again after a separation. All the do’s and don’t’s to find your special someone without losing all the fun.
- Shaman “Cutting the cord” – meditation practice. To energetically break free of someone who is difficult to move on from.
- Understand your Enneagram typology – The Enneagram is a personality system with nine core types, each representing distinct traits and motivations, offering insights into behaviour, relationships, and personal growth.
- A Native perspective test – to understand your 4 perspectives in any given situation. So you can better understand your strengths and what is missing, what is outside your conscious awareness.
- Attachment theory quiz to understand your attachment style in relationships
- A self assessment attachment style workbook
Client Experiences
If you've come this far... you're probably asking "How do I purchase"?
The FLY pathway is an investment into you, your future and your long-term happiness.
It is the culmination of my life’s work which means you won’t make the mistakes that I did. This program will fast-track your results and arm you with all the tools you need to confidently navigate the most meaningful relationships in your life, and especially the one with yourself.
My FLY Pathway is designed to provide you with a transformative 90-day journey to break free from damaging relationship cycles and rediscover your inner strength. Through our 6 modules of online trainings and worksheets, you’ll learn to heal from heartbreak, gain control over your life, and build unshakeable self-assurance. We’ll guide you in understanding your own desires and help you attract connections that align with your newfound confidence. This program empowers you to become a resilient, self-assured person who takes charge of their life and forms meaningful relationships rooted in respect and authenticity.
And because I want to make it accessible to as many people as possible, I’m offering an easy payment plan…
You will get access to the FLY SLIVER payment package for
$549 AUD paid across the first 3 months of the program
OR
the FLY SLIVER package paid in full for
$1,497 AUD
You will get access to the FLY GOLD payment package for
$1,100 AUD paid across the 3 months of the program
OR
the FLY GOLD package paid in full for
$2,997 AUD
