5 reasons why you’re still single attracting the same type of emotionally unavailable partners on repeat
Let me get straight to the point.
If you’re tired of attracting the same type of emotionally unavailable partners but not sure what to do instead… here are five reasons why it’s happening and what you can do to stop the cycle of dead-end dates, boost your confidence, and find the partner of your dreams:
- You’re waiting for the lightening bolt of love. This creates unrealistic expectations of someone and will keep you in an endless loop of first date blues. What to do instead: focus on the positive qualities of your date and where possible aim to go on a 2nd date with them.
- You’re holding onto past relationship baggage. What to do instead: Take time to reflect and process past relationships. Journaling and talking to a coach can help you release old wounds.
- You have unclear or no boundaries in your dating life. What to do instead: Clearly define your boundaries and communicate them early in the dating process. This helps filter out incompatible partners.
- You’re not aware of your own attachment style. What to do instead: Learn about your attachment style and how it impacts your relationships. Understanding this can help you break unhealthy patterns.
- You’re not prioritising self-love and self-care.What to do instead: Develop a daily self-care routine and practice self-love. This will increase your self-worth and help you attract partners who value you.
Hopefully you know where you have ground to make up, but if you’re not sure where to start, I recommend:
- Reflecting on past relationships
- Setting clear boundaries
- Learning about attachment styles
- Practicing self-love and self-care
- Seeking professional guidance if needed
If you want to find a healthy secure and loving relationship, you don’t have to do it alone.
This is exactly what I help my clients with and if you’d like to get there faster and without the overwhelm I invite you to join my mini masterclass:
How to Attract the Partner of Your Dreams in 90 Days or Less!
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