The Modern Masculinity Blueprint
Tzara Attwater Relationship Development Coach

The Modern Masculine Blueprint

Master your relationships, stand in your power and
be the EPIC LOVER you were destined to be.

Welcome to the Modern Masculine Blueprint — a game-changing program designed for single guys who are ready to up their dating game and ditch the ‘Nice-guy’ trap. If you’re tired of being stuck in the friend zone and settling for passionless relationships that feel more like roommates than passionate sex fuelled lovers… You are in the right place!

Say goodbye to feeling like a pushover in your own life, dealing with heartbreak, and constantly worrying about being left in the dust. It’s time to reclaim control, tap into your masculine mojo, and become a master of the dating scene. I’m here to help you transform from a ‘doormat’ to a confident, epic loving, self-assured and magnetising version of yourself.

Picture this: You confidently know what you want, effortlessly attract it, and no longer find yourself chasing after someone who’s just not that into you. Whether you’re dreaming of the perfect partner or just want a better relationship with yourself, the Modern Masculine Blueprint has your back.

Get ready to step into your power, master the art of deep connection, incredible love making and attracting a partner that will be coming to you for more. No more chasing required. 

Let’s make your modern masculinity the envy of every man out there.


Remember feeling heartbroken?

A ‘shitttty’ feeling of disbelief in the pit of your stomach, that leaves you wondering how you could have been taken advantage of, “What happened?” “How did I get here again?” “What did I do wrong?” I get it.  It sucks.  

There is another way...

Let’s get real about making some solid changes, guys. It’s time to take a good, hard look at yourselves and be brutally honest. Think of yourself like a tangled-up mess, a knot that’s holding you back from living your best life and finding your true purpose.

This knot is made up of all the stuff that’s tripping you up—limiting beliefs, messed-up thought patterns, past pains, you name it. Just recognising that you’ve got this knot is a good start, but finding it and untangling it? That’s a whole different ball game.

That’s where the Modern Masculine Blueprint comes in. I’ve cooked up a step-by-step guide, a literal blueprint, to help you untangle that mess. It’s your ticket to transforming your relationships and how you connect with women. No more guessing games, just real processes to break free from the stuff that’s been holding you back.

Let’s get rid of that knot and start flowing smoothly toward your best self and a killer connection with the ladies.

What is it?

It’s a 6-step system that I’ve developed for Men who recognise a pattern of attracting unhealthy relationships and are finally ready to say ‘enough is enough’.

The Modern Masculine Blueprint will arm you with the keys to become self-assured and confident at attracting real and lasting love, effortlessly on your terms.

  • No more doubting yourself or believing you’ll never find the one.
  • No more obsessive thinking about previous partners, stalking on social media or feeling lonely and unhappy
  • No more thinking you’ll be alone forever, unlovable or bitterlistening to the demons in your head.
  • Just a calmer, confident you, using your wisdom to attract the partner of your dreams.

Best part is, it’s easy to follow and can be done in 90 days or less.

How it Works

Alright, let’s break it down! 

Instead of trying to be a lone wolf and tackle those self-sabotage moves by yourself, crossing your fingers that you won’t get hurt again, or giving yourself a hard time for not feeling “good enough,” the Modern Masculine Blueprint is all about giving you a straightforward game plan.

Think of it like a roadmap for getting yourself in gear for a solid relationship. No complicated strategies or waiting around – it’s a simple system you can start using right away. We’re talking about making you ready for the kind of life and love you’ve been wanting, all on your own terms. 

It’s like having the ultimate playbook to attract the good stuff without all the unnecessary drama.


The TRUTH is... this program is NOT for everybody.

Let’s get real, fellas…

The Modern Masculine Blueprint isn’t for everyone. This program is tailor-made for guys who are flat-out tired of going in circles with their relationships. We’re talking about the guys who’ve hit that point where they’re like, “Enough is enough!”

It’s for guys that want to magnetically attract women, ooze charisma and become the epic lover they’ve always dreamed of being.  And… it’s for those guys who are ready to step up, take charge of their lives, their results, and their happiness.

If you’re nodding your head right now, then the Modern Masculine Blueprint is your ticket. It’s the guide for guys who are ready to break the cycle and level up emotionally. This isn’t some time-consuming, complicated thing either – it’s a straightforward system that is simple, easy to apply and works fast. It’s like hitting the relationship jackpot and getting stronger in the process. If that sounds like your vibe, this is your program.


So let me know if I've got this right...

  • You’ve been hurt in previous relationships and are cautious about starting a new one.  But all your friends seem to be in healthy loving relationships except for you and it’s starting to get to you.

  • You want to be able to let go of the past and avoid comparing new partners to your exes. But every new partner seems to be just like the last and you can’t help feeling like the common denominator in it all. 

  • You want to remain objective in conflicts and stop ‘giving in’, (or jump back on dating apps) every time something gets uncomfortable or your insecurities are triggered. 

  • You wonder why it’s so hard to find your special someone, when you’re doing what everyone has told you. You worry about being too desperate / too distant and have no idea what the middle ground is anymore.  

  • You start to convince yourself there is nothing wrong with being on your own. But you secretly lie awake at night like a lone wolf hoping the next relationship will be the one, without doing anything different.  
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The Modern Masculine Blueprint - in a nutshell

A proven 6 step process that is almost the opposite of what you’ve been taught to do by nearly everyone else.  Its unlike anything you’ve ever seen or used before.  Best part is, the Modern Masculine Blueprint works fast!

Step 1 in the Modern Masculinity Blueprint - a relationship development program for men

Module 1 - Elevate Your Self-Esteem

This is the starting line of your love life transformation. The game-changer. This module sets the tone for your entire relationship journey (and life!) 

It’s not just about finding a partner or being a “man’s man”. It’s not about swiping left or right. It’s about being the most amazing version of yourself – giving your self-esteem a boost so you radiate like a neon sign saying “I’m worth it.”

What you’ll get:

  1. Decode Your Relationship Patterns: Ever wonder why you keep attracting the same type of woman? Wether you’ve been attracting cheaters, nags or gold diggers, we’re diving deep into understanding the relationship red flags that keep showing up for you so you can make intentional choices from the very first day.
  2. Illuminate your roadblocks: Let’s illuminate those areas where you’re holding back your power. This exercise is like flipping on your high beams in the dark. We’re exposing the hurdles hiding in the shadows of your mind and revealing the strengths that have been quietly waiting in the wings. 
  3. Daily Confidence Boosters: It’s time to put your self-esteem on the priority list. We’re talking about practical strategies to boost your confidence daily. No shame in that game – it’s about embracing your worthiness and developing a healthy masculinity.

Module 2 - Rewrite Your Love Story

We’re going to hit the refresh button on your approach to love because finding the right person isn’t chance; it’s about consciously creating a story that resonates with the real you and what you want – your standards, life goals and values. 

In this module, we’re tossing out the old script and handing you the tools to rewrite your love story so it’s not about finding any woman; it’s about finding the right woman for you and a healthy long-lasting relationship.

What  you’ll get:

  1. Craft Your Personal Love Story: Whether you’re into spontaneous road trips, wine tasting or late-night philosophical talks let’s delve into what makes your heart race and your soul sing so you can approach dating and relationships with a clear set of ideas about who will be your ideal woman.
  2. The Relationship Remix: This is all about taking the greatest hits from your dating history and remixing them into a personalised track that sets the stage for your ideal partner. Get ready to fine-tune your love playlist that’s uniquely yours!
  3. The Manhood Map: It’s like checking the dashboard of your life and seeing which areas are cruising smoothly and where you might need a pit stop. So, if your career is in high gear but your social life needs a tune-up, this wheel helps you pinpoint where to rev things up.

Module 3 - The Art of Meaningful Connection

In this module, we’re diving deep into the intricacies of communication, both online and offline. Ladies don’t want a generic “hey, wanna chat” message and they certainly don’t want THOSE pics (we all know what we’re talking about, right?). Let’s cultivate some real online chemistry

What you’ll get:

  1. Online Communication Mastery: Navigate the online dating world like a pro. Your dating bio won’t just be a profile; it’ll be a lighthouse in a sea of sameness. I’m offering a dating audit to make sure your online presence stands out. You’ll also discover the keys to crafting messages so you can smoothly open up new conversations and smothly move from online chats to offline dates.
  2. Hone Your Face-to-Face Skills: Ever wish you could read the room and respond to women’s non-verbal cues like a champ? This outcome is like having a secret decoder for understanding the vibes in face-to-face interactions. Master the art of meaningful connection, and soon you’ll be the guy who makes every women feel deeply understood and heard.
  3. What Women Really Want: It’s time to uncover the connection triggers that women respond to. This is like having a roadmap to navigate the intricate landscape of female desires. From meaningful conversations to creating an environment where sparks fly, you’ll be equipped with the insights to go beyond surface-level interactions and forge the deep connection that you both truly desire.

Module 4 - Unleash Irresistible Charm

Confidence is magnetic. This module is your toolkit for unlocking and expressing genuine confidence, attracting the right kind of attention in your personal and romantic life and making a lasting impression.

It’s not just about faking it till you make it; it’s about tapping into your natural charm, and putting everything you’ve learned into real-life practice.

What you’ll get:

  1. Nailing Dating Etiquette: Ever wonder if you’re doing the right thing on a date? We’ll break down the do’s and don’ts of dating etiquette, so you can navigate the dating scene without feeling like a potato. 
  2. Identifying Red Flags and Green Flags: Imagine having a red flag raider. We’re helping you spot red flags that signal potential issues and green flags that indicate you’re on the right track. But this isn’t just about your date…what about red flags YOU might be unintentionally giving off? Actions speak louder than words. Understand the vibes you might be accidentally giving off.
  3. Navigating Post-First Date Contact: The first date is done, now what? We’re giving you a playbook for post-first date contact, whether it’s a follow-up text or making plans for the next meeting. It’s about keeping the momentum going without playing games.

Module 5 - Relationship Resilience 101

This module is your emotional gym. It’s about building resilience, so when life throws relationship curveballs, you’re flexing your emotional muscles with strength. 

Relationship Resilience 101 is all about healing past hurts, toughening up your emotional core and giving you the skills to bounce back stronger from relationship challenges.

What you’ll get:

  1. Navigate Relationship Curveballs: Ever felt blindsided by a relationship challenge? Did you know there are 4 stages to creating a healthy relationship? Equip yourself with the tools to navigate these situations, turning them into opportunities for personal growth.
  2. Build Emotional Strength: Part of fortifying your emotional resilience is being assertive. Learn to set boundaries with confidence, even if it means saying no. It’s about creating a sturdy emotional foundation that stands firm when life throws unexpected challenges your way. And hey, this isn’t just about surviving; it’s about thriving.
  3. Healthy Coping Strategies: Learn practical ways to cope with relationship stress by knowing your attachment style. Knowing your attachment style is like having a specific tool for a specific job in your toolkit. It helps you understand how you might react in stressful situations and how to better communicate with your partner.
    So, as we load up your toolbox with practical coping strategies, we’re also sprinkling in some insights on how your attachment style plays into the mix. 
Step 6 in the Modern Masculinity Blueprint - a relationship development program for men

Module 6 - Relationship Mastery

Alright, gentlemen, welcome to the grand finale, where we’re taking all you’ve learned and propelling you forward. 

It’s not only about understanding relationships; it’s about your constant growth and getting better every day. This module is your launchpad for self-mastery.

What you’ll get:

  1. Take Charge of Your Actions and Thoughts: Let’s get real about the fact that every move, every choice, and every thought is a piece of your life puzzle. You’ll get the lowdown on practical ways to own up to these aspects, so you can take radical self-ownership and avoid making the same love mistakes you’ve made before.
  2. Ditch the Blame Game: Ever felt stuck in the blame cycle? Break free from that nonsense. We’re handing you the tricks to end the blame game, by showing you how to take responsibility for your four powers – what you say, what you think, what you feel, what you believe.
  3. Stop Keeping Count: Imagine a relationship without sneaky agendas or internal accounting “she did that so now I get to do this”. It starts with being straight-up. We’re guiding you to drop those hidden scripts, so your connections are all about openness and honesty.

What you'll receive in addition to the 6 modules

6 months (26 weeks) of LIVE weekly Q&A Support

You'll meet LIVE every week to participate in a Modern Masculine Blueprint group session to answer your questions on the spot - LIVE. Not only do you get your questions answered, you get to benefit from the power of a mastermind group - your fellow students who are all on a similar journey to you. These LIVE Q&A sessions take direction from your questions, offering a style coaching that is invaluable to your development in the program.

Private Facebook Group

So that you never feel alone.
Outside of the LIVE Q&A, you can have all your questions answered in our Private Facebook Group. Even better, because Tzara only allows the best to enter this program, you will be part of a committed and supportive mastermind group, where support and help is only ever a click away.

2 X Personal Coaching Calls

You will be able to book 1 personal, hour coaching call at the start of the program (after 1st session) to discuss what is happening for you now, along with your outcomes and expectations. Your second coaching call will be towards the end of the 6 months so that you can reflect on all the incredible changes you will have made.

Three x 15 mins calls, when you need them!

You also have access to THREE 15min calls with me, anytime you need them across the duration of the program. I have created these 'quick' session so that you actually get the support you need when you need it.

Bonus Content

  • Audit of your online dating profile – including photo review, and bio edit. So you can start attracting rather than chasing that needle in the haystack.

  • Dating again cheat sheet: My steps on how to date again after a separation.  All the do’s and don’t’s to find your special someone so that it is fun and enjoyable.

  • Shaman “Cutting the cord” – meditation practice. To energetically break free of someone who is difficult to move on from.

  • Understand your Enneagram typology – The Enneagram is a personality system with nine core types, each representing distinct traits and motivations, offering insights into behaviour, relationships, personal development and growth.

  • A Native perspective test – to understand your current perspectives in any given situation.  So you can better understand your strengths and what is outside your conscious awareness.  

Client Experiences

Tzara, this program created a great space for me to explore my concerns in depth. With a non-invasive yet attentive framing (and re-framing to keep me on the path) you supported my journey to awareness and transformation.

The challenge has been me vs me in terms of self-sabotaging and repeated ways of coping by avoiding taking responsibility for some of my choices.

Thank you for holding my 'feet to fire' and making me accountable to me, it wasn't comfortable, but I've found real freedom on the other side.

Thank you so very much for a great, life changing experience. Very grateful.
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I feel very lucky for the opportunity I’ve had working with you, Tzara and will definitely be booking further coaching in the future when I’m ready for a checkin. I came to Tzara not entirely sure what to expect but knowing my low self confidence was really letting me down and that I needed to make a change.

With Tzara help through the Modern Masculine program I was able to identify the core of what was blocking me and find ways to break past it, these changes are now reflected in all aspects of my life with others seeing a difference in my confidence and what I’m now achieving.

I would highly recommend working with Tzara she has really helped me make some significant changes.
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I am so grateful for being given the opportunity to work with Tzara. Before our sessions I was not aware of the limiting thoughts and the pattern of behaviour that was filling my mind.

Tzara peels back the layers while you chat that uncovers a lot of ahah moments. I felt supported as she guided me through each session where we discovered my thought processes and the underlying reasons for my negative self talk.

I am in a much better mind set and have already made some pretty big life changing decisions that I would have not backed myself to make previously. I would definitely recommend Tzara, she’s is a talented, kind supportive coach and is excellent in her field.
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If you've come this far... so you're probably asking
"what is the investment?"

Think of the Modern Masculine Blueprint as an investment in yourself, as a man. This isn’t just about now – it’s about your future and setting yourself up for long-term happiness. I’ve put in the grind, fine-tuning this blueprint over the years to get to the real stuff that works in leveling up your dating game.

This ain’t just theory, my friend. The strategies you’re gonna pick up have been tested and proven, breaking the cycle of attracting the wrong partners and giving your confidence a serious boost. We’re talking about fast-tracking your results and loading you up with all the tools you need to deepen your relationships, starting with the one you’ve got with yourself.

This ain’t some never-ending saga either. In just 90 days, you’ll be on a transformative journey, breaking free from those toxic relationship cycles and rediscovering the powerhouse within. I’ve laid out 6 modules of online training and worksheets – practical stuff you can sink your teeth into. It’s about healing from the heartbreak, taking control of your life, and building rock-solid self-assurance.

We’re not just here to give you a pep talk, we’re guiding you to understand your own desires and helping you attract connections that match your newfound confidence. This program is your ticket to becoming a tough, self-assured modern man who’s got his life in check and builds real, respectful relationships that are as authentic as they come. It’s an investment in the new, confident you, my modern masculine man!

And because I want to make it accessible to as many people as possible, I’m offering an easy payment plan…

You will get access to the entire Modern Masculine Blueprint package for

$3,300 AUD paid across the six months of the program

$550 AUD


OR Save 10% by prepaying up front

$3000 AUD


Frequently Asked Questions

Is this program only for single guys, or can it benefit men in relationships too?

The content is initially designed to support single guys in finding love. However, it’s incredibly beneficial for ongoing relationship development once you’re in a committed relationship. The principles can be applied within a relationship with tremendous success.

How much time commitment does the program require each week?

The recorded content will take approximately 1 hour a week to consume. The effort you put into self-reflection, applying what you learn, and completing homework activities is up to you. Remember, the quality of your input will reflect in the quality of your outcomes.

What makes this program different from other self-help or relationship programs out there?

You’ll have me as your coach, meeting online every week for the next 6 months in a small, intimate group setting. Unlike other online courses with thousands of participants, you won’t be just a number here. You’ll have the chance to ask questions and interact with me personally.

Can I go through the program at my own pace, or is there a set timeline?

The program itself spans 3 months, and you’ll have access for 6 months. If you haven’t seen significant changes in that time, I promise to extend your access until you do.

Will this program help me improve my relationships with both romantic partners and friends/family?

Friends and family often notice changes first. Participants have experienced career advancements and improved relationships across the board. Don’t be surprised if people start asking for your secret.

Are there any specific prerequisites or skills I need before starting the program?

All you need is an open and inquiring mind ready to step out of your comfort zone. Be prepared for some discomfort; growth often gets messy before it gets better.

How do the online trainings and exercises work? Do I need any special tools or equipment?

You don’t need any special equipment, just internet access and a working computer or laptop. You can even access all the modules via your phone. The interactive workbooks eliminate the need for any printing.

Will this program address specific challenges faced by LGBTQ+ individuals, or is it more generalised?

While the program is relevant for individuals in any relationship, it is primarily written with heterosexual males in mind, looking to attract heterosexual females. There is some crossover for LGBTQ+ individuals.

Is there ongoing support or a community aspect to this program?

Absolutely! You can join the “Modern Masculine Blueprint” Facebook community for ongoing support from a like-minded group. Your access to this group is for life, once you join the program.