Don’t give up on yourself!

Comfortable relationships are great, but they can also bring complacency about how you look after yourself and your physical appearance.  Someone who only cares about looks, in a shallow way and will leave you for getting an eyelash out of place, is not what I’m referring to.  If you have a frame of no longer being bothered about what you look like, because you have ‘found the one’ you are effectively saying “I don’t care about myself”.  From this perspective you can only attract someone who sees you in the same way you do.

Comfy clothing in a comfy relationship is great.  Let’s be clear, I’m not referring to someone who will leave you for getting an eyelash out of place. BUT, if you’re no longer bothered about what you look like, because you have ‘found the one’ you’re effectively saying “I don’t care about myself”.  From here, you will only attract someone who sees you in the same way.

If you’ve noticed a pattern in your life of attracting or be attracted to a string of unhealthy relationships then this might be of help to you, or someone you know.  My objective here is for you to become brave enough to say ‘enough is enough’ and give yourself the wake up call you need right now…

These are my tips on how to clean your mind of bad relationship patterns and habits. This has been tip #11 Letting yourself go.