Tip #14 Always / Never paying

Does it seem like you’re always the one paying for things in the relationship?

Or are you the one that never seems to the need to pay for anything?

If you’re always paying for things in your relationship or have come to expect things being paid for you. This is a relationship bad habit that needs to be addressed in order to bring back some balance. Now, it might be that one of you runs into hard times and needs support, especially as the current pandemic engulfs the world and job options change.  So, financially helping a partner from time to time, is one thing supporting them like a child is another.  If you are giving away everything you earn, paying all the bills, cooking cleaning and driving everywhere etc…  You don’t have a healthy balanced partnership, and there’s likely some bad relationship habits going on.

If you’ve noticed a pattern in your life of attracting or be attracted to a string of unhealthy relationships then this might be of help to you, or someone you know.  My objective here is for you to become brave enough to say ‘enough is enough’ and give yourself the wake up call you need right now…

These are my tips on how to clean your mind of bad relationship patterns and habits. This has been tip #14 Always / never paying.