Do you find it difficult to let go of emotional hurt that happened in the past?  This is when you keep an emotional scorecard of things that your partner (or ex partners) did that upset or hurt you, never what you did, that hurt them.

Do you continually bring up things from the past that you are unable to let go off.  Like an emotional scorecard that can never be wiped clean. There is no amount of chocolates, roses, date nights or foot massages that can ever make up for all the hurt that yo