Tip #8 – Rescuing or ‘fixing’ the other person

Do you find yourself wanting to rescue or fix another person? No matter what you think or believe, there is no such thing as the perfect person. We are all imperfectly perfect. If you enter into a relationship thinking or believing you need to ‘fix’ someone, it’s not going to end well for either of you.  You are setting yourself up for an impossible and exhausting task which ultimately only shines light on what you are avoiding or missing in yourself.  Supporting someone to do better is not the same as obsessively trying to make unrealistic changes in them. It’s not within your power to change someone, unless they want to change, the only real power is in changing yourself.

If you’ve noticed a pattern in your life of attracting or be attracted to a string of unhealthy relationships then this might be of help to you, or someone you know.  My objective here is for you to become brave enough to say ‘enough is enough’ and give yourself the wake up call you need right now…

These are my tips on how to clean your mind of bad relationship patterns and habits. This has been tip #8 – Rescuing or ‘fixing’ the other person